‘Tis the season for goal setting, at least that has always been the case for me this time of year. In fact, my wife turned to me last night and said “so, what are your goals for 2012?” Before I share with you my answers, let me share with you my perspective on goal setting.
I’m a big believer in annual goals. I think they provide a great way for each of us to stay on track and to measure / monitor how we are doing along the way and how we did during the past year. I’m an even bigger believer in setting “inspirational goals.” What do I mean by inspirational goals, you may ask? Let’s go back to last week’s post. The word “inspiration” is from the Latin “inspiratus” which loosely translates to “breathing in the spirit” (Online Etymology Dictionary). When we feel inspired it feels like our spirit is fully alive inside of us. Inspirational goals are the goals that get us to stretch closer to who we are… closer to our spirit. They are the goals and accomplishments that we dream of but we get too mired in practicality to ever take them on. If achieved, they are also the goals that can spark inspiration in others. Think of inspirational goals as tombstone goals – you would want others to remember you and your life by how you took these on.
Look back on the two posts prior to this one (Have you forgotten who you are? & What if you had one year left to live?). With some good answers to those questions in hand, you are ready for some serious goal setting. One note on goal setting: In addition to the standard stuff that we all know about good goals - specific, measurable, actionable, etc… I would add a quote from a mentor of mine: “change is hard, what is the easiest way you can make it happen?” Keep your goals to a minimum, the fewer the better.
Consider the following categories for your “inspirational goals”:
Do you have your answers? Going back to my wife’s question to me last night, here are my answers. I know you’ve been dying with suspense. I’m working on that book project I always dreamed of. I’m going to make a T.V. pilot happen (doesn’t the world need more workplace therapy? Move over Dr. Phil), and for my relationship goal, well I’ve got one, and would normally be happy to share (drop me an e-mail if you really want to know), but that person may be reading this right now. In fact, it’s probably you. Send me an e-mail and I'll buy you lunch.
Overall, it’s a lot for me to take on. I get that. But I know that if I can pull them off, I’d feel good about way the way I lived 2012. And more importantly, I’d be modeling the life I want my kids to live - A life of courage, risk and inspiration. After all, isn’t that what we all want for our lives at the end of the day?