LISTEN: Otwell Middle School students discuss peer pressure, toxic friendships, and the importance of staying true to yourself on the student-led podcast DAWG TALK.

 

Navigating friendships while figuring out who you are can be one of the most challenging parts of growing up. 

On a recent episode of DAWG Talk, Otwell Middle School students Sophie, Makenna, Izzy, and Vaishnavi explored how self-identity and peer influence shape friendships during the middle school years. The conversation focused on how students sometimes mirror the people around them, either in positive ways or in ways that can be harmful.

Sophie opened the discussion by emphasizing that self-identity defines who a person is and who they want to become. She explained that some students latch onto others when they are unsure of themselves, which can lead to copying behaviors that may not be healthy.

“If you’re trying to copy somebody who is not good for you, you probably shouldn’t be copying them,” Sophie said, showing that toxic friendships can negatively affect both people involved.

Makenna added that toxic friendships are not always easy to recognize. She explained that these relationships can sometimes appear supportive on the surface while actually involving manipulation, jealousy, or lack of trust. 

“Toxic friendships can look amazing and comforting, and it doesn’t always look like a toxic friendship at first,” Makenna shared. 

Izzy and Vaishnavi also discussed how both positive and negative friendships can impact mental health, with toxic relationships sometimes causing long-term harm if they are not addressed.

The group also talked about how conflict does not have to end a friendship. They stressed the importance of honest communication and addressing issues calmly.

 “When friends communicate honestly and openly, it usually makes the friendship even stronger,” one student explained. 

The episode concluded with the idea that while mimicking positive traits can be a way to show love and admiration, it’s important to recognize when copying turns harmful. 

Through open discussion and reflection, the DAWG TALK hosts encouraged listeners to choose friendships that support growth, confidence, and authenticity.